Yettys Bits

Hey there! I hope your year is going well? Mine went from being on a roll to a sudden dip but I am fighting off the remnants of the fog that came with things not working my way for a bit.😊
So let’s get straight to it,shall we?
I decided like I said in the first part of this post to adopt the copper intra uterine device ,it is non- hormonal and does not interfere unduly with the menstrual cycleor body system.
I have worn the copper IUD for about 5 years now.
The process is really quite straight forward. I went to my hospital of choice and I was required to run a pregnancy test to ensure there was no bun in the oven. That done,I laid the same way you would when getting a pap smear or having a gynae to examine you and in less than 5 minutes,it was a done deal. There was no pain,a little discomfort.

Thereafter,the nurse required that I wash my hands thoroughly with an antiseptic soap and asked me put in whatever finger felt comfortable to feel around for the rope hanging into my vaginal

Hey there! 

Today is the beginning of a new school term. Yay!

It is usually a bitter sweet feeling for me. Sweet because the kids will be in school and I will get to concentrate on work fully.

Bitter because I have to wake up early enough so as to be able to cook and get the kids ready for school. 😏I am sure you can tell already I am not a morning person. So what to do? I suck it up and put on my game face!

A few days back I had a conversation with a friend that revolved around family,kids and family planning. She asked me if really was done having kids and when I said “Yes,I believe so.”  She then said she had assumed I was dealing with secondary infertility.I said no,this wasn’t the case.

We got talking and  family planning methods came up;she had been using condoms with her husband and she didn’t particularly like them. This prompted the discussion on what is ‘safe’ for family planning as she wanted to know my experience with my method.

I decided to write about this because I realized that quite a number of women do not really research or ask the necessary question as to what method of family planning is safe or ideal for them.Since I am not a healthcare personnel

It is is a brand new year! Today is the 8th day of the new year,how is your year going?

We have celebrated the birth of Christ at Christmas,we have celebrated the new year, we ate jollof rice,chicken,goat meat,chin chin ,cake,wine and the whole works. So what next? Some of us have posted on habits to stop in 2020,some have posted “A new year,a new me”😁

However,no matter how we wish each other a happy new year no matter how hard we pray that it will be a prosperous year that will bring us all the money and everything we have ever wished for. If we fail to plan and set goals for the year,we may be planning to just watch the year gallop by as we wait for another December 31st to say another “Happy New Year” again.

I am a bible believing Christian and I believe that every thing we need to live our lives in the best way possible can be found in the bible. You don’t believe me?

Happy New Year folks!😁I wish you a year that delivers to you all that you have ever hoped or prayed for by God’s grace. May the year 2020 be a fulfilling one for us all.

I don’t know how many posts I put up in the year 2019 but whatever the number,I intend to do much better this year. I will make a conscious effort to do at least one post per week. This time,I will not say so help me God,instead ,I will rely on my sense of duty and try to be more consistent on here.😊

The other day, I saw a post on FB talking about dogbites

I remember how we met,it was in a BBM group called Mom’s Connect. It was 2012/2013. It was a small group of about 15 women,all moms,some single,some married😀 We all had something in common,our kids.
I knew some of the members of the group,others,I didn’t know,you were one of those others.
One day,we were chatting in the group and somehow,you discovered your older sister lived just a street away from my house and so you said,”I’ll call you one of these days so we can actually meet in real life”.
That was the beginning of a friendship I didn’t even realize I valued deeply,you were older,wiser and strong with a touch of crazy😊.
We chatted often,we saw when we could. We always had something to talk about and you were so easy to be friends with.
You loved your son Terna deeply and he was everything to you. That morning in November when I was just logging my round and pregnant tummy out of the bathroom,I saw you had called me twice,I immediately called back,you sounded as calm as usual, “babe,Terna was hit by a car,I dey General hospital,I need a pair of bathroom slippers,I need you as soon as you can come” I didn’t ask anything,I just responded that I was on my way. We lost him and that was one of the worst days of my life… You were broken,at Gudu cemetery,despite your pain,you kept asking me if I was okay…
A part of you died with Terna but like the trooper you were,you kept going,you tried to live everyday as it came.
We always just clicked and we sometimes won’t see for up to 6 months even though we were in the same town but we just always pick up right where we stopped.

I remember the last time we hung out,it was last year,you sat across from me at my then office and sipped from your cup,coffee,juice? I didn’t ask. I remember you saying we should go down to shoprite to get a sandwich, and I laughed and reminded you that I gave up bread ages ago and in your usual manner,you asked if I didn’t want you to eat for two😊 We laughed a lot and you were talking about Ireland.

Then we kept planning to go out one of these evenings to eat fish and hang out,in December of 2018,you were in Makurdi with Queen mother. We kept chatting and planning to hang out,who knew life had something else planned?😢

I have read over our chats,I could not help laughing out at some and being really sad at others. We talked,you kept saying you were good,it was bad but you were out of the woods.😥😥I shouldn’t have believed you!

Then that evening you reached out saying we should pray at midnight,we did and I continued nights after, on my birthday,you reached out with birthday messages. Then throughout that week,I kept calling,it was either you were not reachable or we could barely hear each other, at other times,you didn’t pick.

However,that Friday morning,I woke up with the pressing need to talk to you,I called as early as I thought you would be awake,it was some minutes to 8. You said