Are you single?are you married?I am married,I have been single and I can tell you this,I loved being single and I also love Mike😀. Does this even make sense? When I was single,though Mike had been in my life for five years before we got married,I loved my life,I was not in a hurry to get married,you see,for me,marriage had never been a priority,it was one of those things I planned to get round to some day, or not😂.
Let me attempt to compare being single to being married😊.I am sure by now you can tell that I am a happy and fun person(stop turning up your nose😂you know I am)I like to laugh,I love to dance and I love good food.So as a single girl,there were things i took for granted,I love to roam the market with my friends,I could spend a whole day just roaming and spending time gisting with my friends,we would be shopping,window shopping and sometimes eating junk along the way.Nengi readily comes to mind when it comes to ‘market waka waka”😂😂
Another thing I loved to do was cook,I still love to cook but in a different way,I would decide that for a whole week,I wanted to eat fresh fish stew,and I would cook fresh catfish fish stew fresh everyday and eat it once a day and I could do sugarcane the rest of the day(weird?I know). Then novels and movies were my favourite things to do,back then in ABU,I would read novels till late into the mornings and I loved American films,I knew all the ‘rave of the moment ‘ movies and I could stay up all night watching movies😊 I also loved to dance,I remember my service year in the Nigerian Military School,Zaria,I had friends we used to hang out together,Cele,Baba Tee and Barry Dee,😂😂😂those were fun times,”tombola” attendance was compulsory for youth corpers,We would dance the friday away and then walk back to our lodge gisting and laughing all the way.The four of us also used to hang out a lot at a ‘joint’called Mates,gizzard and grilled croaker fish was our usual and we would gist and poke fun at each other😀I enjoyed every second of my service year

Now,I am married. My whole life has changed,like 180 degrees change😂😂😂I will be getting to that shortly😉

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